I've attached links to books or videos that you may find helpful. These resources are commonly discussed within the field of counseling / psychology.
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk M.D.
No Bad Parts by Richard C. Schwartz PhD
Workbook for No Bad Parts
The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris
Think Again by Adam Grant
Healing the Shame the Binds You by John Bradshaw
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown
How God Changes Your Brain by Andrew Newberg M.D. and Mark Robert Waldman
Aware by Daniel J. Siegel M.D.
Originals by Adam Grant
Braving the Wilderness by Brené Brown
You Are The One You've Been Waiting For by Richard Schwartz Ph.D.